We take it for granted that children know how money gets into our wallets. The tips below will guide you through teaching your children the value of money.
Now I'm not referring to the value of stocks and bonds, compounding interest, or the current market value of a U.S. dollar.
What every child should be taught at some time, is: the purpose of jobs (how we earn money), saving for goals (how to save money), limit needless spending (how to budget).
It's up to you to decide when and at what age it is appropriate to discuss the following topics. But keep in mind that if you don't teach them the skills to make educated, responsible decisions with their money, you will be holding back a valuable lesson that should be taught. Learning how to successfully manage money is a skill they will have for life.
Where To Start
Don't assume your children know the meaning or purpose of a job, bills, banks, etc...
Let them see you pay your bills. Explain to them how you have 'X' amount of dollars per month to pay for everything. Point out the dangers of getting into debt (credit cards). Explain that ATM machines are not magic money dispensers that give you as much money as you need, for free.
Learning comes from experience. Just talking about money will not get the job done. Learning how to earn, save and spend money appropriately comes from real life experiences.
If your children do not have an allowance already, think about starting one. Only when they have their OWN money to manage, can they put your lessons into practice.
When you are discussing allowance with your children, relate it to your own life. Explain to them that when you want to buy something, you must first work to earn money, then save enough money in order to purchase it ie: car, house, clothes. Tell them that if you don't go to work and earn money, there's no way you can afford to buy what you want.
You can then explain to your children that if they want to buy a new toy, they must earn the money in order to buy it.
It's Up To You
You can design your childs' allowance and chores however you see fit: weekly, bi- weekly, monthly, pay-per-chore.
One method that's effective is designating 'X' number of chores, for 'X' number of dollars per week.
For example: "Johnny. You will earn $5 a week if you do these jobs/chores: water the lawn (twice), take out the garbage, vacuum the house (twice), and feed the cat everyday."
It's up to you to develop a list of chores that can be done around the house, and an appropriate allowance amount to go with it. In other words, you shouldn't have your child painting the whole house for a quarter.
You should also be sure and make the jobs/chores age appropriate. A twelve year old will be able to do more than a seven year old, so take this into account when thinking of chores.
Now don't confuse allowance, with the basics. What are the basics? Keeping their room clean. Doing their homework. These are jobs that should be done without question. Period.
Once You Start
When your children earn their allowance for the first few times, they will want to immediately go and spend it. Fear not. This should be expected. Here is where you can start to teach your children.
Sit down with your children and talk about the "things" they want to buy. Have them prioritize their items on a list, in order of importance. This list can be considered their "Goal Sheet" - the reason they are saving their money.
Have them keep this list in their wallet/purse/piggybank, so they will always be able to look and see what they are saving for. You should also keep a copy of this list just in case they lose it, or want to purchase something that's not on it.
The next time you are in a store, and your children want to use their money to buy something, first ask them: "Do you have your wallet/purse that has the money you've been saving?".You can then ask them if that particular item they want to buy is on their list.
Asking these questions will get them thinking about the items importance. Is it more important than the other items on their list? Let your child make the decision whether to buy or not.
Regardless of what you say, more than likely your children will make the purchase even if the item is junk. That's ok! This is a lesson your child must learn. Only when the initial thrill of the toy wears off, or when your child realizes that the other items on his/her list were more important, will they begin to understand the value of their money.
Conclusion
These are only some of the possibilities you might want to look into. Regardless of what you can take from this article, adapt it so it fits into your family lifestyle.
Money management is a learned skill that comes from real experiences. It is very important that children learn the value of money and the role that it plays in our lives. Teach them how to make smart, educated buying decisions. Stress the importance of setting priorities and working to achieve that goal.
Once your child achieves one of his or her goals, they will understand what it takes to be successful. They will know how to budget their money and limit unnecessary spending in order to buy what they REALLY want or need.
Gregory Thomas has been writing effective money-saving tips for SavingSecrets.com for over six years. Hop on over and you'll find FREE money-saving articles, a monthly newsletter, and even a FREE Ebook download just for stopping by! http://www.savingsecrets.com
licensed cleaning services Park Ridge ..To every thing there is a season, and a time... Read More
The key to a successful car wash fundraiser event is... Read More
Last night Tom's daughter, Sue, came out of her room... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of May 31,... Read More
Once the newness has worn off a little, you will... Read More
Although many parents are concerned with our children's intelligence quotient... Read More
"I could have helped you if I would have known,... Read More
Search for Assurance: The Power of BelongingThe job hunt is... Read More
For any of you Moms out there that are doing... Read More
Tripping over the shoes and toys that seem to clutter... Read More
Cardiovascular endurance is one of the five health-related components of... Read More
The question I have for you drives right to the... Read More
If you are a parent, then more than likely you... Read More
Dads, please let me encourage you to change some things... Read More
Time management is an organisational concept traditionally associated with adults... Read More
Have you ever wondered why toys for babies tend to... Read More
It may seem obvious to many people why literacy is... Read More
'And all because of a damned cat! It's only a... Read More
The successful preschool idea behind many successful preschool learning centers... Read More
When my oldest daughter was born, I walked the floor... Read More
Why are more people, especially parents not outraged?I call it... Read More
Frankly, as a single parent of young children, I struggled.... Read More
"Hugging is healthy: it helps the body's immunity system, it... Read More
What are we teaching our children about money? Hopefully something!I... Read More
Those of you that have children know what an excursion... Read More
on demand house cleaning Arlington Heights ..The snow was getting heavier with each lift of the... Read More
My son, Dakota is now 7 yrs old. He is... Read More
As a parent is seems that the majority of your... Read More
It used to strike me as odd - but really,... Read More
Every year over one million parents have to talk to... Read More
On a bright Sunday morning, a couple of weeks ago,... Read More
Public education in the United States has never been equal... Read More
At first I thought of titling this article "The Lazy... Read More
Last night Tom's daughter, Sue, came out of her room... Read More
As the flurry of Back to School activities subside, parents... Read More
Are you glad for the chance to put your child... Read More
In today's fast-paced society, many families depend on some form... Read More
1. New Word of the DayIntroduce your preschooler to a... Read More
Optimists do better academically, socially and enjoy better health than... Read More
Article based on a friend's experienceI just wanted to share... Read More
Annie easily slipped into becoming the sole caregiver of her... Read More
I have always found the notion of toilet training a... Read More
The initial state of happiness about an own child is... Read More
There isn't a school day that goes by that I... Read More
My wife and I have been working on a video... Read More
I remember when my daughter was born, later my son.... Read More
I was changing Ford's diaper the other day when he... Read More
If you're a single parent or a married couple on... Read More
Having a high level of emotional intelligence in your children... Read More
It is hard to believe that summer is coming to... Read More
Parenting |