Looking back through my files I've come across several great tips for Parents. Here are just a few that I hope will be helpful to you as you invest your day in raising our next generation.
1) Know the difference between big things and little things.
2) Know the difference between incompetence and rebelliousness. If you child does something out of incompetence, then take the time to teach your child how to do it right. If your child acts out of rebellion toward your authority as a parent, then this behavior needs to be disciplined or punished, but cannot be tolerated or accepted.
3) The word "discipline" means "to teach, to shape, to mold, or to perfect." Remember this.
 
4) Be firm, be consistent, and build a personal relationship with your child. 
5) Be careful not to become overly performance oriented with your children. They are more than just homework, reports, and chores. There is a real person there who has hopes, dreams, fears, likes and dislikes. Get to personally know your child.
6) Quality time is no substitute for quantity time. The average father in America spends only 47 seconds a day in conversation with his children. But I am sure that it is quality time.
7) Be a positive person, and a positive role model for your child. The best predictor of how your child will be when he is 30-40 years old is how YOU are as a person today. Be a positive influence on your child socially, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
8) Make the effort to catch your child doing something right every day.
9) Teach your child how to be successful. First, take the time to figure out in your own life what it means to be "successful." Is it just having more money or stuff? Or is there more to your life than that?
10) Teach your child self-control and respect for others.
Douglas Cowan, Psy.D., is a family therapist who has been working with ADHD children and their families since 1986. He is the clinical director of the ADHD Information Library's family of seven web sites, including http://www.newideas.net, helping over 350,000 parents and teachers learn more about ADHD each year. Dr. Cowan also serves on the Medical Advisory Board of VAXA International of Tampa, FL., is President of the Board of Directors for KAXL 88.3 FM in central California, and is President of NewIdeas.net Incorporated.
experienced cleaning professionals Northbrook ..Mommy (Daddy), Why do those people want to hurt everyone?Last... Read More
The most common medications used in the treatment of Attention... Read More
Bedtime and children's sleep habits can cause nightmares - for... Read More
There are only two ways to get more money:1) Increase... Read More
According to researchers, most children enter school with a good... Read More
Bearers of life, wipers of noses, givers of unconditional love... Read More
In seminars I am often asked about pocket-money and whether... Read More
It is so important to create an environment that promotes... Read More
Recently I took my two children to a popular new... Read More
"Just turn the lights off and go to sleep"Do you... Read More
I was changing Ford's diaper the other day when he... Read More
It's been raining for a week and the kids and... Read More
Diapers..Changing a dirty diaper is not the best part of... Read More
Research published by University of Rochester neuroscientists C. Shawn Green... Read More
To the untrained eye, it might look like a piece... Read More
Most of us can agree that there is a lack... Read More
The law of -ing.The law of -ing refers to a... Read More
It can be hard being a parent with a teen... Read More
Vouchers, which give tax money to parents to pay for... Read More
So you want to be a mum? Every time you... Read More
What are the easiest things citizens can do to prevent... Read More
It is hard to believe that summer is coming to... Read More
You send your child to school and the teachers teach... Read More
"Will my doubts and fears affect my child?" This father... Read More
Travel is a common theme in my life -- probably... Read More
best value cleaning service Northbrook ..1. New Word of the DayIntroduce your preschooler to a... Read More
The internet is a dangerous place for your children. Don't... Read More
The ADD child exhibits a series of behaviors that are... Read More
Why Me?"We should certainly count our blessings, but we should... Read More
Vinegar or honey, what do kids really want? "Toys, candy,... Read More
I remember watching my 18-month-old son eat a big frosted... Read More
Although many children are picky eaters at some stage in... Read More
I am crying tears of joy mixed with great sadness... Read More
Q. How do we decide what our teens should be... Read More
Keith is now in the fourth grade and he dislikes... Read More
Parents, when you help your children learn to read, you... Read More
What parents of a teen haven't wondered where their sweet... Read More
Depending on where you live school will be starting this... Read More
Emotional OverloadMany single parents say they deal with a variety... Read More
Article based on a friend's experienceI just wanted to share... Read More
Let's face it.The job market is getting tougher every day.Computerization... Read More
Life is comprised of pieces of time sprinkled with pivotal... Read More
It was no contest. Given a choice between a ball... Read More
My kids ask me all the time to take them... Read More
Have you made your usual New Year resolutions? You know... Read More
Mother's Day is important for children.This Mother's Day take note... Read More
If you are a parent, then more than likely you... Read More
My kids just can't get enough of playing games with... Read More
Imagine you were the principal of the school that your... Read More
We need a grass roots campaign targeted towards parents to... Read More
| Parenting |