Our initial reaction when hitting a setback or a "roadblock, whether it be during an important project or even just trying to finish a task, is usually one of frustration or the thoughts of "Why does this always happen to me?" or "why doesn't anything ever work for me?". Roadblocks can be valuable though. Here's how:
For example: say you want to publish a "How to" book. You get it all set up and then find out that it's going to be too expensive to get it printed. You could just give up on the idea or you could brainstorm. For example:
- could you create an e-book instead?
- could you print it off yourself?
- could you simply alter things to make it cheaper (ie. Less colour pictures, use only 2 colours, etc.)?
- could you find a technical college which may be willing to do this cheaper as students would be working on it?
- would it be better as a web site?
The benefits of brainstorming like this is you may figure out a far better idea than the one you had originally. You may end up really glad that you didn't go with the original plan.
If you can think of your roadblocks as a challenge then you avoid falling into the victim trap. Your confidence to achieve your goal will increase as you know it can be done. You just need to figure out if there's a better way. Think of them as "silver linings" and you'll be amazed at what ideas you suddenly come up with. Your goal may suddenly become closer than you thought and be an even greater achievement and all because you knew a roadblock could be a really valuable tool. You just needed to know how to use them.
Note: This article may be freely reproduced as long as the AUTHOR'S resource box at the bottom of this article is included and and all links must be Active/Linkable with no syntax changes.
Catherine Pratt 2005
For more articles and tips on how to build self confidence in your personal and work relationships, visit life with confidence
green cleaning service Park Ridge ..Did you know that the 911 equivalent in the UK... Read More
If you are a parent, it is up to you... Read More
Unhappy? Stressed out? Do you feel you not only want... Read More
Our lives are overflowing with negative information from the newspapers,... Read More
Change your attitude, change your lifeIn my experiences, I've found... Read More
So, do you love yourself?Shouldn't really be a difficult question... Read More
Many times when an angry or rageful man comes into... Read More
If your life is difficult--if it's challenging, exasperating, and vexatious--... Read More
The only constant is change. If theres one thing we... Read More
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.... Read More
Maureen worked in an office with twenty other people, processing... Read More
Imagine what your life would be like if you could... Read More
Look for the positives!Seek them out - those little scary... Read More
"A person is limited only by the thoughts that he... Read More
Why do we really need the experiences that we have... Read More
If you think you are a loser, you train or... Read More
It would be pretty hard to become successful without first... Read More
Life shouldn't be so complicated. Have you ever wondered why... Read More
Each of us has a mind by which we convert... Read More
Have you ever been caught up in a thought that... Read More
Why do we have such a downer on Pollyanna? After... Read More
Have you ever read that you should think positively when... Read More
How you feel about yourself truly does affect your interaction... Read More
A rager, or rageaholic, is a person who is addicted... Read More
Can you do something for me?Tell me?Please don't think tomorrow.What?Yeah,... Read More
cleaning help near Bannockburn ..It is widely believed that just anybody has the intrinsic... Read More
Heard of a raindance? It is a ritual used by... Read More
A balanced life not only leaves you feeling more fulfilled;... Read More
THOUGHTS are powerful. The power of THOUGHTS cannot be underestimated.... Read More
Are you a person who loves challenges, or hates them?... Read More
Early in my career a position became available which I... Read More
Recently, a lady came to see me and she had... Read More
Maureen worked in an office with twenty other people, processing... Read More
While trying to ignore my teen daughters rap music a... Read More
The most dangerous thing is illusion. ~ Ralph Waldo EmersonFailure... Read More
As a being of thought, your dominant mental attitude will... Read More
The easiest, most exciting adventure in consciousness follows the lamplit... Read More
There are always explanations for why things to you or... Read More
Most of what we've been taught about how to be... Read More
So, is this really where you thought you'd be? You're... Read More
Ever witnessed an incident that needed to be reported to... Read More
WhenWhen we have feelings for someone or something, we have... Read More
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is... Read More
Have you truly tried and still failed? Have you pushed... Read More
Improving this single attitude makes your days fly by. You... Read More
I was always somebody who felt quite sorry for myself,... Read More
Ever had the sense that there is more to life... Read More
Your response (reaction?) to change is conditioned by your entire... Read More
Many people find it extremely difficult to be assertive, whether... Read More
IntroductionDid your boss, took you for a ride? Did your... Read More
Positive Attitude Tips |