It used to strike me as odd - but really, it makes perfect sense.
If you are a regular flier, or have flown recently, you'll know what I mean. The 'plane is taxiing along for take off and the cabin crew are going through the pre-flight safety routine.
The odd bit I'm referring to is when they tell you what to do with the oxygen masks in the event of the cabin losing pressure. Now, all decent parents would feel the urge to see to their children first. It's a natural instinct.
After all, you regularly hear of adults throwing themselves down to push a child out of the way of an oncoming truck, with no heed for their own safety.
So what advice are parents given?
See to your own oxygen mask first. In other words, see to your own safety and then look after the kids.
Yes, it used to strike me as odd - but when you think about it, it makes perfect sense.
Your kids need you to look after them. And you're no use to anyone if, whilst trying to assist them, you're struggling to breathe and start to lose consciousness.
The common sense rule is: see to yourself first - that way you'll be in a better position to help others. And that way you all stand a better chance of survival.
And so it is with parenting skills.
You want to have the best parenting skills for your family. And while you're at it, you want to overcome all your family problems and challenges.
Most parents mean well. They want the best. But often they overlook the obvious:
You must first of all look to yourself.
Probably the best parenting skills you can develop are high self-esteem and confidence.
Yes, for you, yourself, not your family.
Their development and confidence will follow on naturally from yours.
Because with high self-esteem and confidence you'll be relaxed, self-assured, assertive, and you'll cope in a crisis.
And all these qualities will be like music to your family's ears! A Mom and Dad who are relaxed, confident and caring in their parenting activities will produce relaxed, confident and caring children.
But today there is a wave of anxiety, fear and panic, not just among parents, but in society in general.
Ask yourself just how confident you are in tackling your parenting projects.
Why not boost your parenting skills by boosting yourself first and foremost? Whether you're a Mom or a Dad, or even if you want to do this together as a couple, there's a wealth of resources available.
A simple internet search will turn up an endless stream of parenting resources.
The more effective your parenting skills, the more balanced and productive our citizens!
And you know what?
Your kids will love you for it!
Happy parenting . . .
Why do some parents and children succeed, while others fail? Frank McGinty is an internationally published author and teacher. If you want to develop your parenting skills and encourage your kids to be all they can be, visit his web pages, http://www.frank-mcginty.com/peace-formula.html AND http://www.frank-mcginty.com/peace-formula.html
best cleaning company Highland Park ..Parents, do you have children who do poorly in school,... Read More
Everyone needs friends, and, as parents, you and I both... Read More
It used to strike me as odd - but really,... Read More
Q: Whenever we tell my daughter "no," she just bugs... Read More
For many adults, reading a book or newspaper seems effortless.... Read More
Have you ever wondered why toys for babies tend to... Read More
Recently, a much-anticipated game of mini-golf with my children soon... Read More
As the kids go back to school, you can go... Read More
Well first off, please to don't institute the ? hour... Read More
I have always found the notion of toilet training a... Read More
You can learn a lot from children.The best part of... Read More
The last decade has seen heightened interest in and awareness... Read More
Throughout the year, many days of celebration are tucked capriciously... Read More
What one word best sums up summer fun? Water. I... Read More
Today's dads are more hands-on than ever before and their... Read More
We all scream for ice cream. Or, we don't, at... Read More
4 traps to avoidTrap 1 - Parents need to realize... Read More
The following spelling games can be used by parents to... Read More
IntroductionAs a parent who wants the best for your children,... Read More
Is it possible to be using our children addictively?Anything that... Read More
Working with adults (as well as children and teens) for... Read More
Dear Sir, It was with some interest that I read... Read More
An apology is a sign of strength, not weakness. Sometimes... Read More
This may come as a surprise, but many parents are... Read More
As a mother of two sets of fraternal boy/girl twins,... Read More
high-end home cleaning Winnetka ..Although it's hard to say when the first stuffed dogs... Read More
Minus all meningitis thoughts. The flu symptons were strong. Headache,... Read More
Even if your teenagers do not use drugs, you still... Read More
'Whose room is it anyway?'If you have a teenager, you're... Read More
Q. With the school year just beginning, what can we... Read More
Successful parents have learned to be both firm and kind... Read More
The popularity of EEG Biofeedback Training continues to grow both... Read More
Your child's leadership skills begin at the family dinner table.... Read More
We take it for granted that children know how money... Read More
Who lives in your house? Are they driving you "crazy?"... Read More
On a recent Saturday evening, I noticed a young teen-age... Read More
1 "Law of Belonging": The greatest need of teenagers (after... Read More
MYTH: If you have not parented as well as you... Read More
As thinking, acting human beings we have the ability to... Read More
The advances in science over the past century have been... Read More
When my firstborn arrived into this serene and peaceful household,... Read More
Saturday mornings. Cold cereal and Scooby Doo. How many parents... Read More
Parents are in a unique position to "monitor" their children's... Read More
As parents, we love our children and want to do... Read More
We all want to comfort our children after they suffer... Read More
Here is a top secret to make your child genius... Read More
Bedtime and children's sleep habits can cause nightmares - for... Read More
Joey steps away from his time out chair "I won't... Read More
One of the basic issues we need to understand is... Read More
The choices are mind numbing. Walk into any toy store... Read More
Parenting |