Joey steps away from his time out chair "I won't sit!" His mother is frustrated and throws her hands in the air..Time out is just not working for this mom. Many kids do not respond to time out so what do parents do???
- Let the discipline reflect the behavior
Some children respond well to discipline that is structured around what they did wrong. An example of this is a child that draws on the wall is asked to help with the clean up. There for they understand that what they did creates work for them self and there is a consequence for what they did.
- Point out what's good
Many children respond to being told when they are doing well and being praised for it. Watch your child for when they do some thing good such as sitting quietly reading tell them "I like it when you sit and read like this, you are being such a good boy right now. " You will find the good behaviors that you point out will happen more often.
- Don't say Don't
Children tend not to hear the word don't. If you say "Don't jump on the sofa" A child many times in the excitement filters out the "don't " aspect, and they hear "Jump on the sofa!" instead replace it with "Sofas are for sitting Please sit down."
- Give time
Children do not easily switch gears like adults can. Many times what sets a child up for bad behavior is many times a reaction to a quickly changing from a task they enjoy to another .Giving your child a warning of a change a few minutes ahead can help. "Timmy, you may play blocks for ten more minutes then we will put on our coats and go to the market." This gives your child time to switch gears.
Every child is different .They make you have to be creative until you find some thing that works, and the next day you have to be creative again, because they change all the rules.
About The Author
Jennifer is a stay at home mother of nine.She owns and operates http://www.simplymoms.com a parenting site just for mothers.
There are many useful jogger stroller accessories out on the... Read More
Once upon a time there was a beautiful bird whose... Read More
Many of us have grown up drinking caffeinated diet sodas... Read More
Gift shops are a kid magnet and often a trip... Read More
Have you heard the song; "I Hope You Dance"? It... Read More
IntroductionChildren are the gifts of God to parents. That young... Read More
Parents, when you help your children learn to read, you... Read More
"Get down from the table top right now! What are... Read More
Demanding children ? children who have entitlement issues ? seem... Read More
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Results of the Spanking Poll on Rexanne.com: Voters - 233Percentage... Read More
Dear Camille,As I thumb through the photographs that I carry... Read More
I never dreamed that I would be in a position... Read More
A small town, somewhere in the world, was managed by... Read More
Parents looking for a quick fix usually choose troubled teen... Read More
'Picky Eater' is a label coined to describe the phenomenon... Read More
Many young people don't know how to study efficiently and... Read More
One of the most prevalent myths of our modern culture... Read More
I will never forget the day that my daughter's sixth... Read More
Mealtimes together deserve an important place in any family. Around... Read More
One of my first memories of childhood is that of... Read More
Should a parent give a child a tangible reward when... Read More
Voices!So many voices crying out for adherence and so many... Read More
Homes should be run by parents, not children. So many... Read More
It was a hot summer day in august and The... Read More
The school holidays are a great time for the kids,... Read More
We are all aware of the child obesity epidemic that... Read More
Impulsivity is one of the hallmarks of people with Attention... Read More
IntroductionAs a parent who wants the best for your children,... Read More
Adderall is a stimulant medication used in the treatment of... Read More
Are you looking for the Ultimate Airplane Themed Party Games... Read More
Prenatal intelligence, also known as fetal intelligence, has become a... Read More
Does music need to be "dumbed-down" for kids? The answer... Read More
Parents are always looking for ways to open up the... Read More
As thinking, acting human beings we have the ability to... Read More
Although it's hard to say when the first stuffed dogs... Read More
My neighbours' kid impressed me the other day.I was busy... Read More
The First Reason: For one thing, child development experts are... Read More
Maintain CommunicationEven though teens need to separate from their parents... Read More
At first I thought of titling this article "The Lazy... Read More
Question 1 "How do I get more time to play?"... Read More
From the book Spider's Night on the BoomI've only begun... Read More
The small, lilac colored hexagonal box, with Winnie the Pooh... Read More
The 21st Century Problem in Schools: Bullying, and How to... Read More
If you visit search engines you can find several resources... Read More
A sure way to double the joys of parenthood is... Read More
Being consistent when children are less than perfect can make... Read More
With the beginning of the new school year coming VERY... Read More
You may think once your child has gone off to... Read More
The biggest trick some child predators' are using these days... Read More
In 1996-97 we were contracted by VAXA International of Tampa,... Read More
Parenting |