"Just turn the lights off and go to sleep"
Do you find yourself saying this to your child? Well, you're not alone!! Sleep problems are some of the most common problems parents face with their children. Some parents struggle with getting their child to sleep through the night. New parents worry about how to help their child learn good sleep habits that last a lifetime. And still others wonder if their child's sleep difficulties are chronic and are concerned that their child may be going through their days sleep-deprived.
Studies reveal that a significant number of children have some form of a sleep disturbance. Sleep disturbances among children and adolescents are common. Prolonged changes in sleep patterns, if left untreated, can result in significant emotional, behavioral, and cognitive impairment and can put your child at risk for poor school performance, accidents, and social or medical problems. The key is to identify changes in sleep, and to know when to seek assistance.
Sleep disturbance can take several forms including:
? difficulty falling asleep
? trouble staying asleep
? frequently awakening
There also are other variations of sleep issues known as parasomnias, e.g., night terrors or sleepwalking.
To alleviate your child's sleep disturbance, try these simple steps:
? Keep bedtime at the same time each night: This helps your child establish a structure and enforces a predictable routine.
? Monitor unnecessary environmental stimuli: Minimize the light and noise in the child's bedroom (music, lights)
? Encourage pre-bedtime relaxation: Children respond well to activities that allow them to wind down such as a warm bath, massage or aromatherapy
? Share some activity: Dedicate time to reading a bedtime story or talking about your child's day and encouraging meditation and reflection
? Plan the transition: Ease the child into new processes by discussing changes and comforting their transition into healthy sleep habits
Sleep in its natural form is the only way our bodies can re-charge. Beyond resting, sleep serves many functions including memory preservation. If your child is not receiving the quality and quantity of sleep that is required (typically 8-12 hours each night is optimal), the toll can be enormous. Performance in school, interacting with others and activities of daily living may diminish in quality. The origins of a sleep disturbance may range from anxiety tied to emotional conflicts, such as fear of an upcoming test or excitement over a speaking part in the school play, to medical issues such as apnea. It is important that the underlying issue be addressed, no matter the source, to resolve the sleep disturbance and give your child their best shot at life.
Remember always to take into account where your child is in their developmental stage, because some sleep issues are age-appropriate. If you have exhausted the suggestions listed above, then possibly the need for professional intervention is warranted. You are the expert when it comes to your child and their sleep patterns. If you have a concern, trust your instinct and seek professional advice.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Dr. Charles Sophy currently serves as Medical Director for the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS), which is responsible for the health, safety and welfare of nearly 40,000 foster children. He also has a private psychiatry practice in Beverly Hills, California. Dr. Sophy has lectured extensively and is an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the University of California Los Angeles Neuro-Psychiatric Institute. His lectures and teachings are consistently ranked as among the best by those in attendance.
Dr. Charles Sophy, author of the "Keep 'Em Off My Couch" blog, provides real simple answers for solving life's biggest problems. He specializes in improving the mental health of children. To contact Dr. Sophy, visit his blog at http://drsophy.com
licensed cleaning services Park Ridge ..What are we teaching our children about money? Hopefully something!I... Read More
It can be hard being a parent with a teen... Read More
In the last 20 years we've all been introduced to... Read More
Does this sound familiar? Have your kids not listened to... Read More
Moms, did you ever question your value as a role... Read More
If you ever walk through an orphanage, it will be... Read More
Successful families don't just happen. They take time, talent and... Read More
Child support is defined as that part of your income... Read More
Did you know that the school system is only able... Read More
A great many parents are concerned that the electronic games... Read More
Oh yes you have! Suddenly, "Where's Bobby?" You instantly realize... Read More
A learning disability is defined as a permanent problem that... Read More
There are many things to like about the television show... Read More
Why Is Spending Time with Your Child So Important?For children... Read More
Public-school teaching is structured in such a way that it... Read More
Why are more people, especially parents not outraged?I call it... Read More
Speaking as a Michael (a Hebrew name, meaning "Who is... Read More
"To educate a person in mind and not in morals... Read More
Maryann is so focused she's blind. She's slipped over the... Read More
We are all aware of the child obesity epidemic that... Read More
This year alone, 1,600 teenagers aged 15 to 19 will... Read More
The cruel callous remarks made by our offspring can sometimes... Read More
"Family Matters" was the headline that caught my attention in... Read More
The distressed adolescent often has feelings of abandonment, emotional detachment,... Read More
I'll never forget my first lesson in a glider.I'd been... Read More
on demand house cleaning Arlington Heights .."Becoming a parent can make you a better worker," New... Read More
Are your children truthful, kind, and helpful? If so, read... Read More
What parents of a teen haven't wondered where their sweet... Read More
The girl's jaw dropped in horror as the police officer... Read More
Very often, new parents rely on a parenting tip or... Read More
Peaceful Parenting? ideas are very different from other kinds of... Read More
For over fifty years, public-school officials and politicians have tried... Read More
Looking for an unusual and memorable gift? Why not preserve... Read More
How many times have you flipped through the pages of... Read More
In the first premise, some films and video tapes which... Read More
Why do some children still do best after divorce and... Read More
As a hypnotherapist, I am acutely aware of the power... Read More
Did you know that inconsistency on matters of discipline gives... Read More
'How can I start getting my children to help out... Read More
How bad is the illegal drug problem here in the... Read More
The school holidays are a great time for the kids,... Read More
I will never forget the day that my daughter's sixth... Read More
Are you worried about your child's reading habits? Perhaps you... Read More
Travel is a common theme in my life -- probably... Read More
Finding out that a child has been born with a... Read More
Does your child pout, blame and brood? Does he gripe,... Read More
NY -- Strange as it may sound, bordom promotes happier,... Read More
As I sit here and reflect on the past two... Read More
Many research studies have shown the overall effectiveness of stimulant... Read More
Cardiovascular endurance is one of the five health-related components of... Read More
Parenting |