1. Encourage Questions.
Don't answer every question, instead ask what do they think. Asking questions stimulates conversation between you and your child.
2. Don't Criticize.
Criticism invites low self-esteem. Children feel that they have failed or disappointed their parents when they are criticized. Find alternate ways of correcting the problem. A child will likely shut down communication if they feel that their parents are not supportive.
3. Respect Your Child's Opinions.
Your child is not an extension of you. Although it is difficult to accept at times, it is normal and healthy for your child to have their own opinion. Children who are confident in expressing their opinions are less likely to join gangs or succumb to peer pressure.
4. Teach Your Child To Embrace Diversity.
Encourage your child to learn about different cultures and ethnicities. A well informed child can will understand and respect other people's values.
5. Teach Your Child To Set Personal Boundaries.
Children need to have their personal space respected in order for them to respect other people's personal space. Help your child to establish their boundaries and insist that he/she enforce them with their peers.
6. Establish A Nurturing Environment.
Children thrive in environments in which they know they are loved and respected. Remind them every day that you love them and support them.
7. Understand Your Child's Thinking Process.
In order for you to be an advocate for your child in school, you must know and understand how your child learns. Is he/she creative, logical, musical, spatial, interpersonal, intrapersonal, naturalistic? Know your child's capabilities and accept their creativity.
8. Let Them Think For Themsleves.
Encourage independent thinking. Let your child decide (within reason) what is appropriate for them. Give them enough room to make decisions, but also be there in case their plans don't work out.
9. Teach Them Stress Management Skills.
Help your child to effectively deal with stress. Try not to contribute to their stress with demands and unrealistic expectations. Make learning fun!
10. Teach Your Child To Trust His/Her Instincts.
In order for children to be successful in life, they must learn how to trust their decisions. Your child needs to be confident in trusting his/her instincts and feelings. Children who trust themselves are less likely to participate in unhealthy behaviors.
About The Author
Marie Magdala Roker is a Family Coach and Certified Breakthrough Parenting Instructor. She is completing her Masters in Health Education at Columbia University's Teachers College. She helps parents to reclaim their lives and students to unlock their academic potential. She is committed to helping build healthy families, one family member at a time.
Rolling Meadows Cadillac Escalade rental .. Lockport Chicago limo O’HareThe most common medications used in the treatment of Attention... Read More
Q. My daughter is a junior in high school and... Read More
Public education in the United States has never been equal... Read More
As a mother of two sets of fraternal boy/girl twins,... Read More
Something eerily familiar happened in KwaZulu-Natal's Hluhluwe-Umfolozi Park in Africa... Read More
Are you looking for the Ultimate Airplane Themed Party Games... Read More
Voices have a way of falling into a pattern, not... Read More
Homes should be run by parents, not children. So many... Read More
Every summer our daughter goes to summer camp. She looks... Read More
Do you want to create a deeper, more loving relationship... Read More
Depending on where you live school will be starting this... Read More
It happens every year. Just when you are settled in... Read More
Have you ever experienced one of those days when you... Read More
When it comes to exams, or indeed any academic work,... Read More
School authorities continually claim that they want more parent cooperation... Read More
How should one look upon Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)... Read More
The following spelling games can be used by parents to... Read More
What is the mystery of motherhood? I know that when... Read More
Your child's first year of school should be a fun... Read More
Teenagers are a work-in-progress, and parenting teenagers can be tricky... Read More
Hints from Ruowen Wang? Keep a small basket filled with... Read More
If you are a parent, then more than likely you... Read More
Vouchers, which give tax money to parents to pay for... Read More
If your parenting methods include abuse of any kind; physical,... Read More
Much has been said about the "gifted child" but in... Read More
Des Moines rental limo ..The brightly colored plastic mobile dangles lazily overhead in the... Read More
It was blisteringly hot last Saturday. As I took that... Read More
Do you think you really know your child? I don't... Read More
MYTH: If you have not parented as well as you... Read More
You may remember The Red Couch Project, a book by... Read More
The teenage years are a crucial time in a child's... Read More
Our back-to-school buying habits do not help kids succeed in... Read More
What parent hasn't gone into a son's or daughter's room... Read More
Drivers 16 years of age have little driving experience, putting... Read More
What is the mystery of motherhood? I know that when... Read More
The older my daughter gets the more it's sinking in... Read More
Winnie the Pooh is the classic picture of Inattentive ADHD.... Read More
Lead is one of the most dangerous toxins a person... Read More
Once your little boy/girl goes off to school, you may... Read More
Why do some children still do best after divorce and... Read More
I remember when my daughter was born. Visions of her... Read More
1. Encourage Questions.Don't answer every question, instead ask what do... Read More
More and more parents are expressing their concerns about how... Read More
"Money is tight, and my husband's obsessed with doing everything... Read More
Many people still think that the game of chess is... Read More
Dear Sir, It was with some interest that I read... Read More
I remember watching my 18-month-old son eat a big frosted... Read More
A certain educator was once asked at what point should... Read More
The human brain never actually stops developing. Beginning formation in... Read More
It's sometimes difficult to find ways to be involved with... Read More
Parenting |