There are times that we encounter fearful thoughts that can be difficult to manage. For some people, the more they try to get rid of the thoughts, the stronger the thoughts become and the more difficult they become to manage. As a result, here is a brief list of techniques that a person can use to help manage their fearful and obsessive thoughts and anxieties.
The first thing a person must do is not to dwell or focus on the fear provoking thought when it comes. The more a person tries to reason out the thought or focus on the fear behind the thought, the stronger the thought becomes. The next time you encounter an obsessive thought, get into the practice of not dwelling on it.
From my interviews with various psychologists, I was told that a person should visualize a red stop sign in their mind when they encounter a fear provoking thought. When the negative thought comes, a person should think of a red stop sign which serves as a reminder to stop focusing on that thought and to think of something else. A person can then try to think of something positive to replace the negative thought.
A person should keep a small notebook of positive statements that makes them feel good. Whenever they come across a positive and uplifting verse that makes them feel good, write it down in a small notebook. A person can then carry this notebook around in their pocket and whenever they feel anxious, they can read their notebook.
Our fearful thoughts can sometimes produce a lot of anxiety. When this happens, a person should take a deep breathe and try to find something to do for a few minutes to get their mind off of the problem. A person could take a walk, listen to some music, read the newspaper or do an activity that will give them a fresh perspective on things.
Although I am a Layman and not a professional, I have interviewed many counselors and I learned that there are many ways to deal with these kinds of thoughts. From my interviews, I've learned that usually it is the fear behind the thought that gets us worked up. When dealing with fearful and obsessive thoughts, do not dwell on the thought.
Stan Popovich is the author of "A Layman's Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods" - an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties.
For additional information go to: http://www.trebleheartbooks.com/mvstanpopovich.html
For free articles on managing fear please go to: http://www.trebleheartbooks.com/mvstanpopovich.html
eco-friendly cleaning service Buffalo Grove ..Aging is a matter of the mind.The years may creep... Read More
Hospital patient undergoing surgery recounts how Hero Soul provided strength,... Read More
"If I have the belief that I can do it,... Read More
They're out there? they look like people you know, but... Read More
Near the end of December 2004, I received an email... Read More
The mind absolutely amazes me. It will never be understood,... Read More
You know, very often, the manner in which a person... Read More
"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude... Read More
One Friday in November, I began a journey from New... Read More
Keep focusing on the fullness of your life: Keep remembering... Read More
Everyone faces challenges during their life, from suffering the death... Read More
Thinkers know better than to be racist. It's generally understood... Read More
We have often missed the mark because we believe we... Read More
Our thoughts define who we are. They can make us... Read More
There was someone I used to work with who, well... Read More
What does it take to succeed? How can you move... Read More
I have studied the idea of changing thoughts to create... Read More
Often when radical change occurs in our lives we feel... Read More
Why do we really need the experiences that we have... Read More
The others in the raft didn't seem to share Eddie's... Read More
Hey gang; Ok it's time to create some good habits.... Read More
With the beginning of a new year, are you happy... Read More
"Every prayer - every thought, every statement, every feeling -is... Read More
The most happy and successful people on earth have a... Read More
"A person is limited only by the thoughts that he... Read More
express cleaning service Arlington Heights ..Once upon a time, I was a vibrant, youthful teenager...My... Read More
Gail's StoryGail is a friend of mine and she was... Read More
You are already a winner, and so am I.Although you... Read More
Look for the positives!Seek them out - those little scary... Read More
How you feel about yourself truly does affect your interaction... Read More
In order for you to make positive ground daily you... Read More
When we were children, we were fearless. We would stick... Read More
Gratitude is one of the most important things you can... Read More
Distortions are False Beliefs Programmed every Day by Self and... Read More
I AM SO GRATEFUL for meeting challenges head-on. We see... Read More
The late Norman Vincent Peale was a controversial preacher who... Read More
No matter how positive a person we are overall, there... Read More
In frustration it's easy to jump to false conclusions that... Read More
In order to learn how to relieve ourselves of self-defeating... Read More
"The other night I ate at a real family restaurant.... Read More
If you work toward what you dream, the dream can... Read More
Empty, Hollow, Nothing?.those words shout the sound of disappointment and... Read More
Many people who suffer from low self-esteem would give anything... Read More
Turn negative thoughts into positive ones.Negative thoughts can be very... Read More
Know thyself.These words were inscribed in the vestibule of the... Read More
The quality of your life is directly related to your... Read More
If we are the products of our attitudes then it... Read More
Ever had one of those mothers, or grandmothers, who would... Read More
One often hears people say they can't sketch because they... Read More
Question: "It's only three months. Or six months. Or a... Read More
Positive Attitude Tips |