All the problems that any individual has in their lives can be found to have roots in what are called "false beliefs". These can be false beliefs about themselves, about other beliefs, about emotions they may harbor or entertain, about others, and about their reality. Such beliefs form and get stored in one's consciousness throughout the course of one's life. They often are never questioned and thereby are used to supposedly help that individual move through their life.
It's only when one begins to run into difficulty that one may begin to realize that something is wrong. Some may turn to some form of psychotherapy to try and figure out what the problem is. Unfortunately most therapies are so embedded with many of the same false beliefs that they fail to provide the help needed. So how can one truly become free of the unhelpful beliefs that they may unknowingly be carrying?
A new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) (MRP) has been shown to readily uncover and release unhelpful false beliefs from one's consciousness and one's life simply and easily. The shift in one's state of being when this happens is often associated with some or all of the following experiences: a feeling of lightening (i.e. a sense of buoyancy and an inner sense of radiance), feelings of relief, feelings of joy and contentment, feelings of self confidence, self esteem and self confidence, feelings of grounded ness and feelings of being more present in one's physical body than ever before. In essence the shift is a spiritual one and what I term "becoming one's Divine Self".
I offer a brief example here of how this works. Most individuals carry a belief that goes something like this: "The feeling of guilt is a necessary human emotion". Now I know that this may sound strange to some to be questioning such a belief because many would not consider it a "false belief" but please bear with me and perhaps some new insights might emerge for you.
The belief that:
"The feeling of guilt is a necessary human emotion"
Is useful because:
"It will help one make more virtuous decisions and therefore will help them feel like a more worthy person"
So in summary:
A) "The feeling of guilt makes one feel like a more worthy person"
Does that sound correct to you?
If you summon up the feeling of guilt that you may still be harboring inside about something, for a moment, and notice how it makes you feel, I think you will recognize that it "only" makes you feel like an "unworthy person"!
So clearly statement A) above is false. In turn it undermines the belief that guilt is a necessary human emotion because "being or feeling unworthy" has no redeeming features for you or anyone. Now I know that some might say things like "Well it's important to feel unworthy" or "there are other good reasons to feel guilt" and so on. However with a similar analysis these too can be found to be erroneous or false statements.
For instance:
"It's important to feel unworthy"
So that:
"I can take responsibility for the wrongs I've caused"
So that:
"I can learn to do things right the next time"
So that:
"I can feel like a better person"
So that:
"I can feel like a worthy person"
In other words:
"It's important to feel unworthy so that I can feel worthy".
Does this not sound like an oxymoron to you? It's like saying "it's important to be black so that I can be white". Well if you're black, you are obviously not white, are you?
It might begin to concern some of you that such bizarre statements are emerging from some deeply held beliefs. What is important to recognize however is that going on "buying into" such false beliefs without knowing that you are doing so can have much more serious consequences to one's life. Can you think of what these might be?
If you'd like to free yourself of limiting false beliefs that are ruining your life feel free to visit the web site below.
Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is a Key Note Speaker, Author, Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build phyiscal, emotional, mental and spirtual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.
Personal Url: http://www.telecoaching4u.com
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