As a parent is seems that the majority of your day is spent trying to get your children to listen to what you are trying to teach them. Make them understand how to me a responsible child. Convince them to make the right choices. Kids call these lectures. Some parents call them friendly reminders or teaching opportunities.
Dean Rusks said, "One of the best ways to persuade others- is with your ears!" There are three steps that may help you to remember to use better listening skills can help you achieve more effective communication with your child. Just three small words. Stop. Look. Listen.
STOP what you are doing. Put your child on your lap or sit beside them so you are at their eye level. This tells your child that they are important and that they now have your full attention.
LOOK your child in the eye. Maintaining good eye contact during a conversation is a good way to recognize important non-verbal behavior. Your child's posture, body movements and gestures can tell parents a lot about how their child is feeling.
LISTEN and really hear what your child is saying. You can give your child clues that you are listening bu nodding, smiling or raising your eyebrows. These kind of communication signals will encourage your child to open up to you and feel they are being understood.
Randall A. Wright gives a parenting test in his book Building Better Homes and Families. See how you rate.
About The Author
Author Rachel Webb designs 100% Magnetic Fridge Calendars in order to Schedule Family First. 5 affordable designs made entirely out of heavy duty magnet http://www.note-ables.com or http://www.note-ables.com and mention this publication for a $2 off Coupon!
family-safe home cleaners Morton Grove ..There are a lot of sophisticated parenting theories and techniques... Read More
Just two days ago, another 15-year old child was added... Read More
What is hard for parentsLetting them learn from their mistakes.Trying... Read More
I had my first two children on either side of... Read More
With the beginning of the new school year coming VERY... Read More
A strange thing happened to me today. Or more precisely,... Read More
How would you like to have more time? Of course... Read More
Adderall is a stimulant medication used in the treatment of... Read More
In his recent newsletter "Happy Kids", parenting expert Michael Grose... Read More
My kids just can't get enough of playing games with... Read More
In an actual war, to be attacked means to have... Read More
Even if your teenagers do not use drugs, you still... Read More
Imagine having no television for an entire season. Such was... Read More
Now I know that is not how the song goes,... Read More
Oh yes you have! Suddenly, "Where's Bobby?" You instantly realize... Read More
1 "Law of Belonging": The greatest need of teenagers (after... Read More
More and more kids these days are diagnosed ADD, ADHD,... Read More
What's new and effective in the treatment of Attention problems?... Read More
Yesterday my husband Wade took the day off (that's one... Read More
Let's be honest! When it comes to parenting, men expect... Read More
It was a day that I will forever be etched... Read More
Vouchers, which give tax money to parents to pay for... Read More
"Walk through any toy store and you will see walls... Read More
"In general my children refuse to eat anything that hasn't... Read More
There are few thoughts as terrifying as the abduction of... Read More
home cleaning services Wilmette ..Prioritize. Learn to say No. Steal some time for yourself.Don't... Read More
All babies cry, but if yours cries a lot, isn't... Read More
How bad is the illegal drug problem here in the... Read More
Many children who suffer from the psychological effects of child... Read More
For troubled teens who are struggling with drug abuse, depression... Read More
If you really want to get your children to eat... Read More
My wife and I have been working on a video... Read More
Everyone loves penguins. And now, everyone has a chance to... Read More
You do what you can to keep your little ones... Read More
Q. How do we decide what our teens should be... Read More
Pool safety should be on the minds of every parent... Read More
Home schooling benefits children. As a parent, I feel it... Read More
The 'phone conversation had nothing at all to do with... Read More
What a dreamer I am when thinking about parenthood. Most... Read More
Teri was 5. As younger siblings do, she looked up... Read More
Dan Rather made a significant and tactical error and got... Read More
In elementary school it's pretty straightforward: bringing in cupcakes to... Read More
Our back-to-school buying habits do not help kids succeed in... Read More
MYTH: If you have not parented as well as you... Read More
Fizzy sherbet in a paper bag with a strawberry lollipop... Read More
Maryann is so focused she's blind. She's slipped over the... Read More
MYTH: All teens have to rebel, and the teen years... Read More
There are many useful jogger stroller accessories out on the... Read More
Today's dads are more hands-on than ever before and their... Read More
Having a babysitter take care of your kids is sometimes... Read More
Parenting |