Anyone can splurge on a formal dinner or a pricey bottle of perfume, but it takes creativity and forethought to be truly romantic.
The key lies in personalizing your celebration. Here are ten ideas to fuel your own creativity:
1. Empty a box of chocolates. Then cut out 50 to 100 hearts from lace doilies, construction paper, or fabric. On each cutout, record something about your mate that you love. Be specific, "The way you smell when you come to bed at night," "The way you take care of me when I'm sick," "Your recipe for pancakes"...
Fold the cutouts, place them in the chocolate box, and top with a red satin bow.
The time you spend coming up with these ideas will contribute to your own romantic mood, and what your partner thinks is a plain-old box of chocolates will instead be a treasured gift for years to come. Plus, you can add to the box for future birthday, holiday, or Valentine's Day celebrations.
2. Build a romantic fire. Before the kids go to bed, have fun roasting marshmallows. After their lights are out, host your own indoor picnic, complete with a bottle of wine and chocolate-covered strawberries.
3. Recreate your first date together. What were you wearing? Where did you go? Do you remember what you talked about? Spend the evening reminiscing and reflecting on how far you've come as a couple.
4. Spoon all night.
5. Choose a book in which you are both interested, fiction or nonfiction. Read a new chapter each night before bed. This cozy tradition will allow you to spend some quality time together and often makes for thought-provoking breakfast conversations.
6. Make a tape of the songs special to your relationship. Include "your song," songs from your wedding, songs from favorite movies. Add a personal voice dedication and leave it in your partner's briefcase, Walkman, or car stereo.
7. Turn off the TV.
8. Kidnap your spouse. Arrange for a babysitter for a few hours--or a few days. A friend of mine had a lot of success with this one. She knew her husband had always wanted to get married in Vegas, but he had agreed to a large, formal ceremony hosted by her family. So, after they had been married 10 years, she surprised him at work with a packed suitcase. They caught an evening flight and renewed their vows before an Elvis impersonator in a Vegas chapel. Years later, they're still talking about it.
9. This one requires a babysitter, too. Next time you're visiting your parents or in-laws, leave the kids with the grandparents and travel to another town, where no one will recognize you. Check into a hotel or B&B. Dress like another person. Act like another person. It's fun to slip into another persona from time to time.
10. Have a scavenger hunt. Write a few poems, wrap candy kisses inside, and hide them around the house. Each poem should be a clue to finding the next one. Make sure the final clue lands your mate someplace you want to end up for the entire evening. A romance package, including a bottle of champagne and new lingerie, is a nice touch.
Create some romantic memories today. Now with your pocketbook, but with your imagination.
Copyright 2004 Susie Cortright
About The Author
Susie Michelle Cortright is the author of Rekindling Your Romance after Kids and More Energy for Moms. She is also the founder of the award-winning Momscape.com, a website designed to help busy parents find balance. Visit http://www.momscape.com today and get Susie's *free* course-by-email "6 Days to Less Stress."
professional maid services Deerfield ..It's back to school time again. Does the thought of... Read More
Question 1 "How do I get more time to play?"... Read More
One of parents' most important duties is to protect their... Read More
All too often, children with learning disabilities are seen through... Read More
Teens can freely access the Internet from computers at school,... Read More
Despite serious reductions in funding for arts programs in... Read More
My wife and I have been working on a video... Read More
Diapers..Changing a dirty diaper is not the best part of... Read More
Today the little red school house is not what it... Read More
I had my first two children on either side of... Read More
"Home Schooling ? Look Before You Leap"Are you considering home... Read More
Children do what feels good to them and follow their... Read More
Something happened the other day that made me feel uneasy.... Read More
I really like all natural remedy for Attention Deficit Disorder... Read More
Arabella Greatorex, owner of The Natural Nursery, reports on the... Read More
I hear from many parents that their child is stressed... Read More
10 Fun Things You Can Do With Your Children this... Read More
As the father of a toddler, I am an expert... Read More
Sometime the most effective training tool in rapidly accelerating the... Read More
Grandparents, what better way to stay close to your grown... Read More
IntroductionAs a parent who wants the best for your children,... Read More
To every thing there is a season, and a time... Read More
When you talk about multiply your child's intelligence, you can't... Read More
21 Reasons I Love Being A DadWhat you will read... Read More
Jason Meridith's two-year old son whines when he wants more... Read More
quick home cleaning Lake Forest ..A tall, weary-looking mother with glasses, walked into my counseling... Read More
Children and teenagers are relentlessly bombarded with merchandise that entices.... Read More
Be aware. You may become totally overwhelmed when you get... Read More
For several years now, I've told the following story as... Read More
You may remember The Red Couch Project, a book by... Read More
The 'phone conversation had nothing at all to do with... Read More
We are all so very happy to see that the... Read More
Whenever parents discuss how to deal with bed wetting, the... Read More
Anyone can become a parent; there are no tests or... Read More
Despite serious reductions in funding for arts programs in... Read More
Not all parents subscribe to the notion of "tough love,"... Read More
Here is something that you might want to keep if... Read More
Q. We just got our daughter's progress report, and it... Read More
The Theme from MASHI flipped the button on the remote... Read More
The school holidays are a great time for the kids,... Read More
I have been a single mom for almost 20 years.... Read More
It happens every year. Just when you are settled in... Read More
Before my daughter was born my house was... Read More
There is little doubt that reading, 'riting and 'rithmetic are... Read More
For troubled teens who are struggling with drug abuse, depression... Read More
Recently, a much-anticipated game of mini-golf with my children soon... Read More
As a parent you will be asked to assist with... Read More
Dear Sir, It was with some interest that I read... Read More
Well first off, please to don't institute the ? hour... Read More
There are many useful jogger stroller accessories out on the... Read More
Parenting |