Potty training fears, often called toilet terrors, are common among toddlers and small children. Look at things from your child's perspective. He is giving up the security of a diaper for a big, cold thing with a giant hole that might swallow him. Up until this point, your child has been able to go in his diaper. He didn't have to control himself until a potty was available. He could go anytime and anywhere, knowing that someone would always be there to change his diaper. The idea of having to go to a specific location means he will have to stop what he's doing to use the potty. To top it all off, he looses the warmth of his diaper and must now go potty naked where other people might be watching!
Common potty training concerns and solutions:
Fear of Making a Mistake ? Your child is just beginning to control his bodily functions. He won't be perfect at it, and might worry that he will be punished for accidents. Throughout the potty training process, assure your child that you are there for him and he can come to you if he's afraid or worried about something. When accidents happen, don't make a big deal out of them. Simply clean up and tell him that you know he is trying. Potty training is often a good time to build a trust between you and your child that will last throughout your lives.
Fear of Automatically Flushing Public Toilets ? More and more public restrooms switch to automatically flushing toilets. Children who are at the later stages of potty training (transitioned from the potty chair to the toilet) are often fearful of the public toilet flushing while they are seated. These fears can be alleviated with a simple, inexpensive device called the Flush Stopper.
Fear of Falling In ? The fear of falling in the toilet is common when your child has mastered the small potty-chair and transitions to the toilet. You can help alleviate this fear by purchasing a potty seat that either fits on the toilet or attaches to the toilet such as the flip-n-flush or PRIMO's flip-n-flush. The potty seats will decrease the size of the toilet hole and help your child feel more secure. The Flip-N-Flush is especially useful because it flips down for your child's use and flips up so that other family members can easily access the regular toilet seat.
Your child's fears need to be addressed as real and serious fears. If your child knows that you understand and are trying to help, he will feel more relaxed and comfortable while potty training.
About The Author
Danna Henderson started ZIP Baby in order to provide parents with comprehensive potty training information as well as a large selection of potty training products. For more information about potty training, or to browse the potty training store, visit the flip-n-flush.
As a parent, you can learn a lot about your... Read More
Young people generally want to fit in to their various... Read More
Looking back through my files I've come across several great... Read More
When we consider that the word allowance means, "allowing for,"... Read More
Several similar terms describe the central attribute of a character... Read More
Most people with children want to be good parents. The... Read More
You are in the final round of your favorite game... Read More
Most of us recognize the continuing escalation of violence around... Read More
Each child carries a unique picture of the self, shaped... Read More
As the father of a toddler, I am an expert... Read More
Although it might seem pretty corny to a lot of... Read More
You are sitting with the professionals who know about learning... Read More
It can be hard being a parent with a teen... Read More
Here are some things that you can do to help... Read More
I remember when my daughter was born, later my son.... Read More
Some years ago when touring the Scottish Highlands, a man... Read More
What is Happening in the brain of children, teens, and... Read More
"Get down from the table top right now! What are... Read More
Blink. That's all we did, blink, and summer is ending... Read More
One of the basic issues we need to understand is... Read More
What's in a name? Er?well, everything, really! Of course your... Read More
So you're going to become a father. Now is not... Read More
Have you ever sat and watch a child struggle with... Read More
"I took care of Callie," my three-year-old announced.Callie had been... Read More
Have you heard the song; "I Hope You Dance"? It... Read More
Des Moines rental limo ..Research has shown that the present generation of children worldwide... Read More
It was at that time when our marriage was falling... Read More
"Hugging is healthy: it helps the body's immunity system, it... Read More
I have always found the notion of toilet training a... Read More
Time management is an organisational concept traditionally associated with adults... Read More
The cruel callous remarks made by our offspring can sometimes... Read More
10 Fun Things You Can Do With Your Children this... Read More
If your child has Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder then at... Read More
Isn't the technology of today is amazing?! Between the speed... Read More
Ask any teacher or adolescent counselor what the most disturbing... Read More
When we consider that the word allowance means, "allowing for,"... Read More
As a parent, you can learn a lot about your... Read More
Checking accounts are an absolute necessity these days. You can... Read More
I have always been aware of my number one weakness:... Read More
As parents and teachers, sometimes we want to praise, at... Read More
Every week I write something about the stock market -... Read More
At age seven months in the womb, humans begin language... Read More
Most people have more training before they receive their driver's... Read More
The formula is pretty straightforward: energy in/energy out. This is... Read More
Our children are our most important legacy to the world.... Read More
What is hard for parentsLetting them learn from their mistakes.Trying... Read More
As part of the whole-language (or "balanced") reading-instruction philosophy, many... Read More
Meningitis is an inflammation of the membranes around the brain... Read More
One of the biggest milestones in our children's education is... Read More
One of the implications of the current trend toward smaller... Read More
Parenting |