I have always found the notion of toilet training a toddler to be a bit much. I didn't feel right about pushing my girls to do something I felt would eventually come naturally. At three years old, both my girls were potty trained ... not because I read books and raced them to the porcelain each time I suspected they should go. They knew what the potty was for. They knew when they had to go. They'd figure it out on their own! Well, by golly, they did!
Sure, we went a little stupid each time they were successful users of the throne and they got rewards and accolades just like the kids who were put through a regimen of potty training tactics fit for Patton's soldiers. But we never made it a big issue in our house and, consequently, it never became an issue.
I've known parents who felt they had to potty train their babies at two or even younger to enroll them in preschool. We, instead, found a great preschool that accepted kids in diapers. Their philosophy was that the children who were still in diapers would naturally learn to go on the potty by watching the other kids go. I suppose it worked. I never really gave it much thought. Potty eureka just sort of happened around here on its own. I've heard that little girls are easier to potty train than little boys. Any readers out there care to comment? We'd love to hear from you, especially if you've trained both a boy and a girl.
As for bed wetting after four or five years of age, some kids just can't help wetting the bed at night. It seems these precious ones are not emotionally unstable, torn apart by low self-esteem or any other old-wives-tale rationale. They simply do not have the capacity to hold their urine and they are deeper sleepers than most. If you have a child who cannot stay dry at night, there is a remedy. Please talk to your child's pediatrician.
Copyright ? 2000-2005 ? Rexanne Mancini
Rexanne Mancini is the mother of two daughters, Justice and Liberty. She is a novelist, freelance writer and maintains an extensive yet informal parenting and family web site, Rexanne.com ? http://www.rexanne.com -Visit her site for good advice, award-winning Internet holiday pages and some humor to help you cope. Subscribe to her free newsletter, Rexanne's Web Review, for a monthly dose of Rexanne: http://www.rexanne.com
move in cleaning service Mundelein ..We are all aware of the child obesity epidemic that... Read More
No matter what you say or do, your kids will... Read More
Mary, Mary, quite contrary, How does your garden grow? With... Read More
Be aware. You may become totally overwhelmed when you get... Read More
Often I will hear parents say, "I just ignore Jr.... Read More
Vinegar or honey, what do kids really want? "Toys, candy,... Read More
As a parent is seems that the majority of your... Read More
Q. Things have been relatively calm and OK with our... Read More
Here are fourteen spontaneous time-outs, specially designed to help you... Read More
Often, the struggle at dinnertime with your picky eater is... Read More
Until about the age of six, children do not generally... Read More
Having worked with parents for the last 35 years and... Read More
There are two methods for teaching children to read; whole... Read More
Q. When you consult with a family with teens, what... Read More
1. Boundaries are necessary for control and safety.All children need... Read More
What is child sexual abuse? Any sexual activity that is... Read More
Late vs. Too LateEvery now and then, I'll hear a... Read More
Anorexia nervosa is a serious medical disorder that is statistically... Read More
Some children practically potty train themselves, while others struggle and... Read More
While most fathers aspire to become the best Dads they... Read More
Tripping over the shoes and toys that seem to clutter... Read More
Diagnosing children and teens with ADHD can be a challenge.... Read More
The No Child Left Behind Act of 2001 is making... Read More
Discipline is a necessary part of parenting yet it makes... Read More
Traditionally, babies have been named at a christening/baptism.... Read More
insured cleaning company Highland Park ..When choosing the perfect jogging stroller, a very important question... Read More
There is a new stage of development for parents to... Read More
Like anything else in life, there's a method to the... Read More
(Excerpted from Jim Rohn's 2004 Weekend Leadership Event)You have to... Read More
In today's fast-paced society, many families depend on some form... Read More
What is Happening in the brain of children, teens, and... Read More
There may really be a real monster under your kid???s... Read More
Q. My daughter has gotten very good at manipulating us,... Read More
Today the little red school house is not what it... Read More
Oh Please, Don't Say Maybe!!!!Are you often a participant in... Read More
In stepfamilies, big holiday expectations can lead to big disappointment--and... Read More
My oldest boy is fifteen and was a real jerk... Read More
One fantastic way to get your children involved in what... Read More
Is there anything wrong with lying, cheating, stealing, shop-lifting, taking... Read More
Back to school preparations are in full-swing. Soon, the first... Read More
"In general my children refuse to eat anything that hasn't... Read More
Winnie the Pooh is the classic picture of Inattentive ADHD.... Read More
Do you want your child to cooperate with you more?Children... Read More
There are moments in a parent's or grandparent's life, when... Read More
Even though the "Stop and Think" movement in ADHD treatment... Read More
It was a hot summer day in august and The... Read More
When parents help their children learn to read, they help... Read More
Finding answers to a child's underachievement is often a difficult... Read More
You no longer have to use Ritalin or other stimulants... Read More
Many parental units are not "techies" and openly admit they... Read More
Parenting |