Our back-to-school buying habits do not help kids succeed in the classroom!
Parents are buying new book bags, school clothes, tennis shoes, notebooks, pens, etc., with the mistaken belief that this will help their child succeed in school. By mid-September the clothes will be dirty, the book bag will be torn, the new pens will be lost, and the notebook will have writing all over the cover. Additionally, those "in" sneakers will suddenly be "out" and the new "must have or I'll die" pair will cost you another $125.
The back to school retail season is the second most important market for retailers ? a staggering $14 Billion is spend from mid July until mid-September to get our children ready for the new school year. Yes, it is important that our children have the right mind set for their new school year's challenge. Certainly, they need to get off on the right foot and make a good first impression with the teachers. The question becomes ? what do parents do when the new clothes, shoes, book bags, and things become "old"? (Old in a student's eyes can be anything over two weeks.) What do we give our children to help them for the rest of the school year?
Our gift is to teach our children how to take more responsibility for their education. It is essential that we give them the tools they need to succeed today, tomorrow, and for the rest of their lives. How can we get kids to "own" their education? If we show them how to set and achieve goals and how to use these principles in the classroom we will give them important life skills tools that they will use for a lifetime.
Teach Your Child:
1. No Vision = No Direction. Have them write down what they want to accomplish in the first 10, 20, 30 days of the school year.
2. Teach them not to Don't Find Fault ? Find A Solution
3. Minimizing the Bummer Words: Show them how these six words that can hold them back from being successful - no, can't, won't, never, maybe, and if.
4. Coach your child that To Earn More they will have to Learn More, Think More and Do More
5. Stress the "I'll Make It Happen" words: yes, I can, and I will.
6. Demonstrate to them the power of Eliminating Excuses
7. Show them tangibles examples of how to set and achieve goals. Give them examples for how to use goal setting in the classroom.
8. Help them to develop a habit to ask themselves each day: "Did I Give My Best Effort to Today's Activities?"
9. Demonstrate the importance of Helping Others
10. FOCUS = Vision + Goals + Attitude + Action
Teaching your child how to set and achieve goals will make a positive, long-term difference in their performance in the classroom, in the workplace and in life.
John Bishop is the Executive Director of Accent on Success?, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping students succeed in the classroom and in life. He is the author of Goal Setting for Students? which has won three national parent book awards.
Please visit our website www.accentonsuccess.com for more information.
314-664-6110
jbishop@AccentOnSuccess.com
www.accentonsuccess.com
Every year over one million parents have to talk to... Read More
What are the easiest things citizens can do to prevent... Read More
You are in the final round of your favorite game... Read More
Let's face it: raising children can be quite the adventure.... Read More
Night Visits From Your ChildIn the middle of the night... Read More
Remember when cash was a tangible commodity in all of... Read More
A small town, somewhere in the world, was managed by... Read More
Nail biting in all its various forms is problematic... Read More
Do you feel like someone has abducted your sweet, innocent... Read More
Q. When you consult with a family with teens, what... Read More
"Good parents give their children Roots and Wings." --Jonas SalkThe... Read More
In this form of treatment for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder... Read More
My husband and I have a 12-year-old daughter who wanted... Read More
Do any other reality TV junkies remember a show on... Read More
Parents want their children to succeed in school. However, sometimes... Read More
Do you want to create a deeper, more loving relationship... Read More
A growing body of scientific evidence shows that the way... Read More
Your Virgo Baby..August 23 - September 22Virgo children are honest... Read More
Do you want your child to cooperate with you more?Children... Read More
Picture this. Your child comes home with a special assignment... Read More
Love, love, love. It makes the world go round. It... Read More
"My son won't go to bed at night without a... Read More
? Let the child choose his or her own lunch... Read More
``Mom, can I go to the mall with my friend... Read More
Have you ever experienced one of those days when you... Read More
cleaning help near Bannockburn ..Time devoted the better part of an issue to it.... Read More
Q. My teenage son is turning 16 early next year... Read More
We take it for granted that children know how money... Read More
Did you know that the school system is only able... Read More
We're all familiar with the over-indulgent parent. But there's another... Read More
Finding out that a child has been born with a... Read More
Most of us really don't like it when someone is... Read More
Nothing touches the heartstrings of a parent more than the... Read More
Those of you that have children know what an excursion... Read More
Night Visits From Your ChildIn the middle of the night... Read More
It may seem obvious to many people why literacy is... Read More
In the last 20 years we've all been introduced to... Read More
The biggest complaint you hear from parents about their children... Read More
Is there a difference between lazy and unmotivated? Why do... Read More
Vacations are fun ! Weekends with the family are nice.... Read More
Why do some children still do best after divorce and... Read More
As with everything, names go through cycles of change with... Read More
Recently, our family had the opportunity to care for sisters'... Read More
It's hard to explain to the uninitiated the changes that... Read More
"All that I am or ever hope to be, I... Read More
So, the thing is? I am feeling a little guilty.I... Read More
If You're Having Twins..is it double the headache, or double... Read More
Every now and then I'll get a story sent to... Read More
Children and teenagers are relentlessly bombarded with merchandise that entices.... Read More
An address given by Rev. David B. Smith... Read More
Parenting |