Impulsivity is one of the hallmarks of people with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. This impulsivity is the result of the brain's decreased ability to inhibit. There is a lack of self-control even at the neurological level. Impulsivity is found in two areas. There is behavioral impulsivity, and there is cognitive impulsivity.
Behavioral impulsivity would involve actions, what one does. ADHD er's with behavioral impulsivity don't stop and think first before they act. No matter how many times you tell this kid, "stop and think first," the next time the situation comes up, he may well do the same impulsive thing again.
Kids with ADHD often aren't learning from their past mistakes. Their learning threshold is very high, and if you don't excite them, or motivate them enough to get them above that learning threshold, they don't learn, and they make the same the same mistake again and again.
ADHD er's with behavioral impulsivity act without thinking first, cut in line, can't wait their turn in line or in a game, blurt out answers in class, speak when they're supposed to be quiet, maybe show aggressive behaviors, are often a little too loud, and sometimes fights. They often have poor social skills, which of course is the death socially for teenagers with ADHD. They impulsively say the wrong thing at the wrong time. They can get one date, but they can't get the second date because they might impulsively blurt out something goofy, and then say, "Why did I say that?" Other teens are asking, "Who is this guy?" and often begin to avoid him.
Also, sometimes these kids fail to learn those subtle social cues that everybody else has learned, and so they're socially awkward and often don't know why.
Cognitive impulsivity is different. One with cognitive impulsivity is impulsive at the neurological level. This means that they guess a lot. In fact, guessing is their problem solving method of choice.
Cognitively impulsive ADHD kids will make a multiple number of guesses in a short period of time. On a matching task, or if you give them multiple choices orally, you'll see them guess for the right answer very quickly, "it's this one, no, its this one, no, wait, its this one," until finally you step in and, when he guesses right, you'll say, "That's it!" Of course this just reinforces his guessing.
These cognitively impulsive ADHD kids have very limited problem solving strategies. They don't stop and look and the problem and then say, "Well, I could do it this way first, then do that, then I'll be done." They don't approach problem solving that way. They usually just guess and let trial and error take its course. Now remember, being fast is not a problem. Some have pointed out that "being fast and accurate is good." It's fast and inaccurate that is a problem.
Impulsive kids are often seen interrupting others in conversations, or blurting out answers in class. They often have trouble waiting their turn in games, or have trouble lining up at school. They just don't wait... or think...before they act. To learn how to help children, teens, and even adults who have problems with impulsivity, visit the adhd information library.
Douglas Cowan, Psy.D., is a family therapist who has been working with ADHD children and their families since 1986. He is the clinical director of the ADHD Information Library's family of seven web sites, including adhd information library, helping over 350,000 parents and teachers learn more about ADHD each year. Dr. Cowan also serves on the Medical Advisory Board of VAXA International of Tampa, FL., is President of the Board of Directors for KAXL 88.3 FM in central California, and is President of NewIdeas.net Incorporated.
experienced cleaning professionals Northbrook ..Having a babysitter take care of your kids is sometimes... Read More
Your child's leadership skills begin at the family dinner table.... Read More
Parents want their children to succeed in school. However, sometimes... Read More
The human brain never actually stops developing. Beginning formation in... Read More
Public education in the United States has never been equal... Read More
Mary, Mary, quite contrary, How does your garden grow? With... Read More
A strange thing happened to me today. Or more precisely,... Read More
Saturday mornings. Cold cereal and Scooby Doo. How many parents... Read More
Julia Roberts recently gave birth to twins: Hazel and Phinnaeus.... Read More
Impulsivity is one of the hallmarks of people with Attention... Read More
Speaking as a Michael (a Hebrew name, meaning "Who is... Read More
As a parent there are lots of things that you... Read More
You may think once your child has gone off to... Read More
the woes of being a parent of an ADHD child.....Like... Read More
1. Diapers (5 -7 is a fairly safe supply)2. Wipes3.... Read More
Do you live with an ADD / ADHD child? If... Read More
The citizens of the early Roman Republic enjoyed an education... Read More
Here is a list of ways to convey the message... Read More
Reading is the most efficient and economical way to help... Read More
Once the newness has worn off a little, you will... Read More
The internet is a dangerous place for your children. Don't... Read More
Many parental units are not "techies" and openly admit they... Read More
All children will likely have many different health problems during... Read More
You are in the final round of your favorite game... Read More
Just a couple of years ago Annie helped her parents... Read More
best value cleaning service Northbrook ..It's sometimes difficult to find ways to be involved with... Read More
Have you ever had this struggle with your teens? Did... Read More
Diagnosing children and teens with ADHD can be a challenge.... Read More
Libraries offer more than books. They are places of learning... Read More
Anyone can splurge on a formal dinner or a pricey... Read More
I have been a single mom for almost 20 years.... Read More
Thank you for all that you do in the classroom!... Read More
Does the homework battle so typical with your hyperactive or... Read More
Early childhood educators have called play "children's work". Many parents... Read More
Dexedrine is not prescribed very often for the treatment of... Read More
Every week I write something about the stock market -... Read More
It's the third time this week that Sam has complained... Read More
Here are some things that you can do to help... Read More
When was the last time you and your kids rolled... Read More
Hints from Ruowen Wang? Keep a small basket filled with... Read More
Be aware. You may become totally overwhelmed when you get... Read More
Dear MomOn this day set aside to honour "Mother's" let... Read More
Paula's last child had just gone off to college and... Read More
Meningitis is an inflammation of the membranes around the brain... Read More
When a child is born, a new number is added... Read More
In 1996-97 we were contracted by VAXA International of Tampa,... Read More
Sometimes a change of perspective can make a huge difference... Read More
Voices!So many voices crying out for adherence and so many... Read More
Here is a list of ways to convey the message... Read More
What parents of a teen haven't wondered where their sweet... Read More
| Parenting |