Courtesy In The Workplace -- Can You Say, Thank You?

Thank you is such a beautiful phrase. When you say, thank you, it makes a world of difference. Recent research suggests that discourtesy in the workplace is rapidly becoming an increasing dilemma for businesses and organizations. Workplace incivility is growing, including an increase in bad manners, rudeness, coarseness, vulgarity, and a lack of respect.

In 1999, researchers Pearson, Andersson, and Porath at The University of North Carolina Business School determined that incivility in the workplace can impact company profits due to lost productivity and employee turnover. Their studies indicated the significance of this impact as follows:

People who experience rude behavior on the job:

  • Quit their jobs(12%)
  • Lose work time(52%)
  • Deliberately decrease their work effort(22%)

However the most disturbing result was that over 78% of those surveyed said that this kind of behavior has worsened in the past decade.

Why Say, Thank You?

  • It demonstrates that you value courtesy and good manners. Saying thank you for something you have received, no matter how small is a great way to communicate. It shows understanding and encourages a positive reception and acceptance.
  • It promotes good health and a successful lifestyle. Extending common courtesy to others demonstrates maturity and a healthy self-esteem.
  • It is fundamental to strong interpersonal relationships and in building rapport. It really doesn't take much to be cordial to others by saying please and thank you as you carry out business and job responsibilities.
  • How to Form a Thank You Habit

  • Learn and practice proper work etiquette. Get back to basics and focus on how you can make your workplace a more pleasant environment for all-bosses, workers, and customers. Acknowledge in some way each person you meet even if it is only with eye contact, a nod or smile.
  • Concentrate on creating pleasant and agreeable experiences for everyone who interacts with you. Be gracious and considerate. Watch for uncivil behavior. Every day you are presented with situations that allow you to show common courtesy and consideration to others. Be proactive and take advantage of every opportunity to be cordial.
  • Minimize any It's-All-About-Me tendencies. Instead Do unto Others as You Would Have Them Do unto You by displaying empathy and finding opportunities to increase your connection. Remember how it feels when someone insults you or is rude to you. Think about what you can do to improve civility in your work unit, team or department. Then, just do it!
  • Be sincere and genuine. Your efforts must be honest and heartfelt. Being courteous comes not from your head but from your heart. If your actions do not match your words, then your efforts will be in vain.
  • Never underestimate the power of a Thank You! Take time to acknowledge and extend courtesy to someone today!

    Althea DeBrule, entrepreneur and seasoned human resources executive, has focused for more than 30 years on helping people achieve their career goals. Creator of The Extreme-Career-Makeover? and a founding partner of RADSGroup Organizational Consultants, she is recognized for her bottom line and practical application of career development and management strategies in a way that penetrates hearts and compels action. She speaks and teaches with inspired talent, humor and contagious zeal at management conferences and leadership retreats nationwide, and has been featured in CFO Magazine, strategy@work, Human Resource Executive Magazine. Althea is the author of Bosses & Orchards, a compelling and candid book about how to make your work relationship with your boss succeed. To discover how you can take your career to a new level, visit strategy@work.

    quick home cleaning Glenview ..
    In The News:

    Major Marquis fintech breach exposes 400,000-plus Americans' data through unpatched SonicWall vulnerability, with Texas hardest hit at 354,000 affected.
    Free up iPhone storage fast by clearing large photos and videos from Messages app. Simple steps for iOS users to delete attachments without losing chats.
    Scammers are flooding inboxes with fake tracking alerts that mimic real carriers, exploiting the holiday rush to steal logins and personal data.
    The Fox News AI Newsletter brings you the latest news on AI technology advancements and the challenges and opportunities AI presents now and for the future.
    Texas family reunites with missing 11-year-old cat Grayson after 103 days using Petco Love Lost's AI photo matching technology and community help.
    Tired of AI customer service loops? These insider tricks help you escape "frustration AI" and get real human help when you need it most for urgent issues.
    Unlock richer audio from your streaming apps with simple tweaks to volume normalization, equalizer settings, and quality preferences for cleaner sound.
    Scammers are sending fake Facebook settlement payout emails that mimic legitimate notices from the privacy settlement administrator to deceive users.
    Holiday shopping scams surge as fake refund emails target distracted consumers during Black Friday and holiday seasons, costing Americans billions annually.
    The AI-powered IRMO M1 exoskeleton features four modes, including turbo, eco, training and rest for hiking, running, cycling and sports with eight-hour battery life.
    OpenAI announced upgrades for its ChatGPT Images platform on Tuesday, saying the program can now make more precise edits and produce images more quickly.
    Chrome for Android now turns web articles into AI-powered podcast conversations. Get hands-free browsing with Google Gemini's natural audio summaries.
    LastPass faces $1.6 million fine from U.K. regulators after 2022 data breach exposed 1.6 million users. Password manager failed proper security controls.
    Petco disclosed a data breach exposing customer Social Security numbers, financial account details, and driver's license information due to a software error.
    Baseball teams can now analyze complete swing mechanics in normal training environments using Theia's markerless AI system that processes standard high-speed footage.
    Smart home hacking fears overblown? Expert reveals real cybersecurity risks and simple protection tips to keep your connected devices safe from hackers.
    MIT develops needle-free glucose monitor using light technology. Revolutionary device could replace painful finger pricks for diabetes management.
    The ClickFix campaign disguises malware as legitimate Windows updates, using steganography to hide shellcode in PNG files and bypass security detection systems.
    Researchers from Osaka Metropolitan University designed a 21-foot dome that combines aquaculture and hydroponics to create a self-sustaining urban food system.
    The Fox News AI Newsletter gives readers the latest AI technology advancements, covering the challenges and opportunities AI presents.
    ChatGPT data breach exposes personal info of users through partner Mixpanel. OpenAI confirms names, emails compromised in security incident.
    Android rolls out Emergency Live Video for 911 calls, letting dispatchers see real-time scenes during emergencies. Great for holiday travel safety.
    Malicious Chrome and Edge extensions collected browsing history, keystrokes and personal data from millions of users before Google and Microsoft removed them.
    Google's new Call Reason feature lets Android users mark calls as urgent before dialing, displaying an urgent label to recipients using Phone by Google app.
    Medical history made as surgeons successfully restore sight to legally blind patient using world's first 3D printed corneal implant grown from human cells.

    Get Some Attitude!

    You've been looking for a job for as long as... Read More

    Moving? Pack an Emotional First Aid Kit

    From Making the Big Move: how to transform relocation into... Read More

    Get Out of Your Way!

    We hear a lot these days about accepting responsibility for... Read More

    Teens And Positive Living

    If you are a parent, it is up to you... Read More

    Life Can Seem Unfair Until We Change Our Perspective! See How!

    Empty, Hollow, Nothing?.those words shout the sound of disappointment and... Read More

    Change in the Workplace: Don?t Fear It; Use It!

    Every day something changes at work: your products, your customers,... Read More

    Your Dominant Thoughts - How to Take Advantage of Them

    Self belief is a wonderful thing.I know from my own... Read More

    How To Stay Positive In spite of The Negativity Around You

    I'm often asked how it is that I stay so... Read More

    Zenobias Life Lessons

    I was a young girl aged 12, when the one... Read More

    Really Scary Stuff

    With the probable exception of some basic instincts ? or... Read More

    C-R-I-T-I-C-I-S-M

    Yuk!One thing, I really have a problem with is criticism.... Read More

    Possibilities

    When you look at your future in terms of your... Read More

    The Power of Passion

    Improving this single attitude makes your days fly by. You... Read More

    Changing Stumbling Blocks To Stepping Stones?

    "The difference between a stumbling block and a stepping stone... Read More

    5 Ways To Use Mind Power To Maximise Your Potential

    Why do patients who are given placebo pills report that... Read More

    Positive Thoughts and Words

    You want to change your self-care habits and you can't... Read More

    Surrounding Yourself With Positive Energy

    Our lives are busy. We rush here only to remember... Read More

    Are You A Victim Of FABS? Part 2

    When you have a case of FABS, it may be... Read More

    Life Is Not Always Fair

    I once heard the story of a grown bear that... Read More

    3 Proven Ways To Build Self-Esteem

    When someone thinks of a person with self-esteem most people... Read More

    Dealing with Criticism and Rejection

    Whether it's the other kids making fun of you at... Read More

    Optimism, the Only Option for Success

    People with negative attitudes may wonder why they never achieve... Read More

    Decide Your Own Destiny

    Human nature is created so that you can choose your... Read More

    Beliefs

    Do you realize that what we believe about ourselves, affects... Read More

    Where You Want To Be

    Barry was on the phone in his office, speaking with... Read More

    scheduled maid service Winnetka ..