We all scream for ice cream. Or, we don't, at least not anymore.
Before moving to this sleepy suburb as kids, we lived in the city. We'd walk to the corner store for an italian ice. I barely kindergarten age when we moved south of Boston, but I remember the cool lemony goodness on a wooden stick like it was yesterday.
When we moved to the 'burbs, we didn't have to go to the store anymore for a treat. The ice-cream truck would come to us, (though I seem to remember calling it the slush truck?) Of course, looking back, I see that an ice cream truck was just one more hurdle in my weight gain problems, but this is a happy memory, damnit.
During the summer months, you'd hear the distinct sound of bells, calling to us kids like the Pied Piper of frozen confections. We'd haul up the driveway, down the street, out of the woods, with quarters, dimes and nickels, to buy a "graveyard" slush. Does anybody remember this- getting all those syrupy sweet flavors mixed together to make a greyish-blackish mud of a slush? Maybe it was just my brother who ordered it like that? I used to love watermelon, cotton candy, anything pink.
Now, I'm the mom, living in the same town. We don't have an ice-cream man anymore. Occasionally one comes by, but he's here after bedtime, thanks Mister for getting the kids riled up after 8pm with the thought of drippy Spiderman sherbet on a stick with gumball eyes! (He needs to alter his route and get here earlier to make the big bucks from my three treat-loving kids.)
It's different now, though. We're more conscious of food choices, and running to get an ice cream cannot be a daily habit.
Not only that, parents these days are insanely aware of anyone who drives slowly through a residential neighborhood who doesn't belong. Welcome to the age of Amber Alerts, Attempted Child Abductions, Missing & Exploited Children, & Massachusetts Sex Offender Registry Board.
Children don't run to ice cream trucks alone anymore. Children don't walk to the store to get a treat anymore. When we were kids, we didn't think much of walking up to the center of town to get something. I'll have to ask my mother, but I don't remember how old I was when she finally let me go with a friend to the store, but I know it was a lot younger than I'll consider letting my kids go to the same place.
It's not that it's any different here, it really isn't, but the years that have passed have changed things and changed people.
The years have taken the ice cream man.
Beth
Read about me here...
http://meltingmama.blogspot.com/
An Awesome Dad in by no means perfect. But that... Read More
Here is something that you might want to keep if... Read More
If your parenting methods include abuse of any kind; physical,... Read More
I have always found the notion of toilet training a... Read More
"Before every action, ask yourself: Will this bring more monkeys... Read More
An address given by Rev. David B. Smith... Read More
Q: My husband and I are at a loss as... Read More
"Family Matters" was the headline that caught my attention in... Read More
Checking accounts are an absolute necessity these days. You can... Read More
Is your babysitter watching the kids and your k9 family... Read More
Thank you to all of our professional educators who dedicate... Read More
The key to a successful car wash fundraiser event is... Read More
As thinking, acting human beings we have the ability to... Read More
In memory of 14 year old Matthew Smith; 11 year... Read More
Bullies are an ugly but very real part of childhood.... Read More
The debate in many towns continues throughout this country about... Read More
Are you looking for the Ultimate Airplane Themed Party Games... Read More
It's been raining for a week and the kids and... Read More
The most common medications used in the treatment of Attention... Read More
Becoming a stepmother can undoubtedly be one of the most... Read More
There are times when my ideas of raising a child... Read More
Many children enjoy TV, and they can learn from it.... Read More
There is a front line and a back end to... Read More
Do any other reality TV junkies remember a show on... Read More
Many research studies have shown the overall effectiveness of stimulant... Read More
maid service near Winnetka ..Did you know that the school system is only able... Read More
The back-to-school shopping is done. Brand new pencils, colored markers,... Read More
My oldest boy is fifteen and was a real jerk... Read More
Family decision-making is an intriguing phenomenon. Many factors become part... Read More
My daughters and I went to the beach several weeks... Read More
Do you remember how you first learned the alphabet? I... Read More
It was at that time when our marriage was falling... Read More
Is it hard to communicate with your teenager about issues... Read More
So, the thing is? I am feeling a little guilty.I... Read More
Child Safety Restraints and children in work vehiclesIf you take... Read More
There are a few points about shyness in children which... Read More
Question 1 "How do I get more time to play?"... Read More
The formula is pretty straightforward: energy in/energy out. This is... Read More
Many research studies have shown the overall effectiveness of stimulant... Read More
Moms, did you ever question your value as a role... Read More
Are you feeling overwhelmed being a parent? Do you want... Read More
Some public schools try to turn children against their parents... Read More
Plus size children and overweight children need patterns and clothing... Read More
As with everything, names go through cycles of change with... Read More
Picture this. Your child comes home with a special assignment... Read More
Q. Our 17-year-old son wants us to let his girlfriend... Read More
Did you know that many people retire broke?It's true. After... Read More
In the movie, Finding Nemo, Nemo's father, Marlyn asks the... Read More
Courage means doing the right thing when it is hard,... Read More
Diapers..Changing a dirty diaper is not the best part of... Read More
Parenting |